Character vs. Reputation

Be MorE ConcerneD AbouT YouR CharacteR ThaN YouR Reputation BecausE YouR CharacteR Is WhO YoU ArE AnD YoUr ReputatioN Is WhaT OtherS ThinK Of YoU!


True enough! It is a given fact that we humans are very conscious and concerned about what others say. I see this like a ‘monster’ that eats our spirit. Why? Often than not we would find ourselves reacting the way people would want us to. Sad, because this hinders us from being happy, from being free. Understandably, freedom comes with great responsibility but how would you learn if you won’t take the risk, right?

It’s human a tendency I guess, that if they cannot find faults in the doings of the other they would then try t hurt the character by messing up with the person’s reputation. Indeed, in this we would see that we really can’t separate character from reputation however these two things should not be confused from the other. Character is your personal point of view of yourself while reputation is how people see you. This is the very reason why that we have to know ourselves better, ought to love ourselves coz’ if not we may probably follow the dictates of others without considering to what direction we really wanna go.

We ought to be more inclined in building and improving our character as that is US. Be more careful on how you perceive yourself; make sure you aren’t blinded of each situation and each relationship we get involve in. Self – Check every now and then really helps.